From Dr. Larry

Dr. Larry Gelman is fiercely devoted to each client, with a deep and profound respect for their own self-agency and self-determination.

5 Answers to Every Question

In my opinion, there are at least 5 answers to every question!

1. A

2. B

3. Both A and B

4. Neither A and B

5. Or something else we’re not smart-enough to know right now.

The typical reply to a question is usually positional or A.

The typical counter reply is usually oppositional, i.e., not A, or B.

A: “The sky is blue.”
B: “The sky is not blue.”

A: “My religion is the one and only true religion.”
B: “Your religion is not the one and only true religion.”

A: “I’m OK, you’re not.”
B: “No, I’m OK, you’re not.”

When we dichotomize our answers and consider only A or B, we are guilty of, inadvertently, restricting ourselves to 40% of the available answerable options with the remaining 60% of possible answers not even remotely considered...

Because:

1. A

2. B

3. Both A and B

4. Neither A and B

5. Or something else we’re not smart-enough to know right now

May, separately or collectively, all be correct.

So, in my opinion, there are at least 5 answers to every question!

Author Note: Dr. Larry B. Gelman is a Clinical Psychologist and a Personal Mentor


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